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Yes, she knows.
HeadsUpDaddy is edgy on purpose. It is not covert, ever. Here's exactly what that means, in plain language — not legalese.
A joke app that secretly tracks a woman without her knowledge isn't funny, it's stalkerware with a UI. So HeadsUpDaddy doesn't let that happen — structurally, not as a promise you have to trust.
Before a profile can send a single notification, you have to check a box that says you've told her about this app, or that you're about to. There's no skip button. It's a real gate, not a checkbox theatre piece — the profile stays inactive until you clear it.
The Show Her screen
The best way to explain the app is to hand her the phone
Exactly what's stored
Every logged date for her profile, nothing more. No hidden fields, no data you can see that she can't.
Exactly what's predicted & notified
What the app expects next, and which notification types are turned on for her profile — read-only, so she can see it without being able to break your settings.
A delete button that actually works
“Delete everything about me” removes her entries and cancels her pending notifications immediately. Not a support ticket. Not “request submitted.” Gone, on the spot.
The Show Her screen is written in the same voice as the rest of the app — because if it read like a legal disclosure the moment it mattered most, that would be its own kind of dishonest.
Why it's built this way
Edgy and covert is stalkerware. Edgy and transparent is a bit she's in on.
Those are two very different products wearing the same joke. The first one gets deleted the moment she finds it — and she will find it — and it deserves to. The second one is funnier anyway, because comedy built on someone finding out later isn't really comedy, it's a setup for a fight.
So the app is built for the second version on purpose: she can see everything it holds, she can delete all of it in one tap, and nothing about her ever leaves the phone regardless — there's no server for it to go to.
A different profile entirely
A daughter profile isn't a spicier partner profile with the spice turned down
A daughter profile is locked to the Plain tone tier — Tactical and Unfiltered simply aren't available for it, full stop. Fertility-window tracking is a separate matter, and it's absent too, not defaulted off: it's enforced in three independent places in the code, so there's no single setting that could accidentally turn it on.
The same consent gate applies: no profile of any kind goes live without that acknowledgement first.
See what she'd actually see
The rest of the site, and the rest of the app.